Looking back at life there's been numerous occasions where I can honestly say that women have destroyed my s***. What I mean by that is Women have really broken this guy right here's heart. I mean I've even caught one of my girlfriends having a full-on orgy with two of my homeboys..... I got plenty of stories. And of course, it hurt the s*** out of me.
I'm saying this because of course after a series of heartbreaking events any person would go into this phase where it's like f*** these b****** f*** all women! ( yes I said that word and at that the time that's how I felt even though I usually don't say the word b**** ) But now that I'm older I realize that really isn't the mentality to have and holding on to this mentality can set your future relationships up for failure. I can remember times in life when there were women who were actually really interested in me and I had just gone through a heartbreak and I could have given these women a chance but I wasn't having it because in my mind it was "f*** this b******"! Really leaving you single when I didn't want to be. In times like these, we have to try to be conscious enough to take part of the blame when it comes to someone hurting us because we a lot of times give people trust before they deserve it and they haven't earned it.
If you think about it and we actually took our time when it comes to giving somebody trust and learning someone, and yes that might even include waiting on. Sorry, but it's true really depends on the couple maybe we can save ourselves some heartbreak.
Not to mention that the phrase the f*** this b ****** or cursing women off (Which is really not a manly thing to do and is kind of cowardly because it's a defense mechanism we use so we don't get hurt because we are scared to get hurt again)
So my tip of the week is: don't curse off the thought of love take your time when it comes to trusting. It will probably save you from heartbreak......
Mr. Jones