So this past week I realized I needed to talk about "Mr.Fukn Nice Guy". The Guy that Women will say is perfect till he's trying to shoot his shot at them. Then it's "I don't know , it's just not there like that with us", "I don't wanna ruin,what we have now" or the one that hurts probably the most "You're just to Nice".
I can tell you first hand that shit sucks , I was This guy we are talking about for years. The yes man for women, the willing man, to be their friend first, because I honestly thought that was the smart way to get into a relationship.To be honest thinking about it now that's probably why my Girlfriend count is so low lol. I'd be the best fuckn friend you could always have but never be the boyfriend, The Man, or "Zaddy" . Don't get me Wrong there have been plenty of times where I was the Best friend with Benifits but anybody who is the Nice Guy Best/ friend knows they genuinely want more then that. Trust that 98% of the time it don't happen bro, unless your down to wait for 100 other dudes and a whole family later, but then are you really devaluing yourself ,NO!
It wasn't till I met my son's mother that I changed my courting approach , To Simply being an asshole sprinkled with a little sweetness here and there, not being so available and Guess what Gents?! SHE fukn LOVED the shit out of me lmao! I'm not saying treat your woman or love interest like shit, but like our mighty Brother "Thanos" (You better know who he is"... "There must be balance" .
If You say yes to Her every whim, if you always back down and never stand up for yourself with her. She sees it as how can Stand against the world for Her and your family(in the simplest context).Moral of the Story is Don't be Mr.NiceGuy if you want any chance Bro.
It's ok to not answer the phone and be a jerk sometimes!
Mr.Jones' man tips are based off personal life experiences and are intended to help others not make the same mistakes.