In life I've learned that what I think is logical, women don't lol. To me, it seems that logically it would make sense to be somebody's friend before you entered into a relationship that way you can get to know the person see if you can spend every day with them and laugh with them you know all that good shit. Well, this has never fucking worked for me(sarcastic laugh).
Whenever I've just played it cool and actually been a friend (even though there was an attraction).Yes, there were times when the benefits came with the friendship, but I usually end up staying in the dreaded "Friend Zone". Though fun "friends with benefits" ultimately wasn't what I was looking for. 1 thing for sure is that will eventually involve feelings on 1 side or both even sometimes and someone is definitely gonna end up with there feelings hurt. As true friends, nobody actually wants that right.....
Now on the other hand. When I've been straight-forward and told them what my motive was was and that I wanted to be cool with them too, its usually fell in my favor. I know some of you guys might think I'm crazy for doing and saying this but I even say I'm interested in others when I first start talking to the person. some have stayed and othershave left when I've done it but this leaves no room for any deceit, in the beginning, .it also gives the woman a sense of trust, that I encourage u to maintain.Trust me when I say you would actually be surprised at what people are down for when you're upfront and real with them!
So today's tip: Be straight up Bro! It'll benefit you in the long run!
*Mr.Jones's man tips are based on personal life experiences and are intended to help others not make the same mistakes.
Mr. Jones
